Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

A while back, I was driving to San Diego with a fellow sex educator. We were both heading down from LA to teach at a weekend Tantra festival. As we chatted passionately about our work and our lives the topic of transparency came up. It’s a topic I think about often. I...
Reclaim Your Pleasure!

Reclaim Your Pleasure!

3 Steps to Healthy and Fulfilling Sexual Satisfaction   Are you tasting every juicy morsel of your own delicious sexuality? If not, why not? Let’s face it, there are lots of reasons you may be cut off from living a sexually expressed and fulfilling life. Expressing...
Safety is Sexy!  And Consent is the Key!

Safety is Sexy! And Consent is the Key!

What were you taught about consent? What do you wish you had been taught instead? ******* Content Warning: This post includes stories of Abuse, Assault, Survival and Consent Breaks If you’re not sure what consent in sexual encounters means, and you’re triggered by...
Want Hot Lasting Passion?  Here’s step number one…

Want Hot Lasting Passion? Here’s step number one…

“We just don’t have the time to connect. The kids are out of school, he’s got mountains of work, and I don’t get enough “me” time as it is.” Marley tells me, the frustration clear in her voice. Her husband nods quietly in agreement. “I know the two of you want more...
3 Hot Tips for Fulfilling Foreplay

3 Hot Tips for Fulfilling Foreplay

One of the biggest complaints I get is that foreplay gets skipped. I’m here to help you become a better lover; so how do you give the best foreplay ever? Tip #1- Know Your Partner’s Erotic Blueprint™ Type Here’s a contradiction right out of the gate… Not everybody...
Are you an erotic master?

Are you an erotic master?

I love teaching sex skills and erotic secrets to clients and showing them what’s erotically possible. From tantric practices to sensual touch exercises, to techniques for increased pleasure with intercourse all the way to kink practices to play safely with...
The Thief of Your Pleasure

The Thief of Your Pleasure

Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about the “brakes” to accessing desire and pleasure: beliefs, judgments, and feelings that kill your access to enjoyment of your erotic body and mind. In Erotic Blueprints, these are called the “Shadows of your Blueprint” Each...
Design Your Life for Sexual Satisfaction

Design Your Life for Sexual Satisfaction

Use this super effective tool to get the Sex Life Satisfaction You Deserve: Sexy Sex Lab: Feeding a Sensual. Staying Out of The Shadow. What do you do when some aspect of your life is not living up to your expectations? If you’re like me, you: Get real about the...