Battling Erectile Dysfunction

Battling Erectile Dysfunction

Are you suffering from challenges of getting or maintaining an erection? Is this hurting your confidence and sexual satisfaction? I get letters similar to this one from P. all the time. His situation has multiple layers to it, so I thought it would be a great letter...
“I hate my body” and what to do about it!

“I hate my body” and what to do about it!

A friend recently wrote to me about how I seem so confident in my body and asked how I deal with body image issues and coming to peace in myself… Body image is a big issue for women and, believe it or not, many men as well. I used to be over 200lbs and, let me...
Sex for Bonding vs. Casual Sex

Sex for Bonding vs. Casual Sex

Have you ever just meant for sex to be a casual encounter, but found the person that you frolicked with completely attached to you? Or have you ever wanted a casual encounter to be more than just a fling, but didn’t know how to go about changing that? To get the...
The Sex Talk: Hot or Not?

The Sex Talk: Hot or Not?

Your lips merge with your lover. Dancing and nibbling. Buttons unbutton, flesh connects, tingling and aching. Desire crescendos… And… It’s time to have “the talk.” You know, the sex talk. You’re in a new relationship and things are starting to get...
Can A Long-Term Relationship REALLY Stay Hot?

Can A Long-Term Relationship REALLY Stay Hot?

“Can a couple in a long-term relationship really keep the sexual spark?” I asked a leading sexologist, a Ph.D., as we walked to dinner. “Nope,” he said. “Especially when children are involved. We just aren’t wired that way.” I felt let down by his response, since, at...
Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

A while back, I was driving to San Diego with a fellow sex educator. We were both heading down from LA to teach at a weekend Tantra festival. As we chatted passionately about our work and our lives the topic of transparency came up. It’s a topic I think about often. I...