A Queer Love Note to Everyone I Know

Hello Dear, I am dropping in for Pride month with a queer love note to all of you. This love note does not discriminate, it is for you whether you are in the LGBTQIA+ community or not. I name this love note queer in the original definition of the term. This is a love...
Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm”~ Esther Perel – Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...

Masturbation or Self-Pleasure?

The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...

Secrets to life-long passion revealed

Life-long passion doesn’t happen by accident. The partnership that thrives and is full of turn-on and attraction and that lasts decades without work and cultivation is a myth. Are you living your sex life by default or by design? In this interview with Alexa Martinez...