Communication Changes Everything

Communication Changes Everything

“Taking the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course transformed my world of pleasure!” ~ Kevin McCartan, Erotic Freedom Club Member These days, many of us have a number of intimate relationships throughout our adult lives, and a variety of sexual partners. Maybe we...
Pleasure at Any Age

Pleasure at Any Age

Supercharged, hot sex isn’t just for people in their 20s and 30s! Although surrounding culture might have us believe that – movies and porn are filled with young, supple bodies having sex. Society tells the same story over and over… that your sex life declines...

A Queer Love Note to Everyone I Know

Hello Dear, I am dropping in for Pride month with a queer love note to all of you. This love note does not discriminate, it is for you whether you are in the LGBTQIA+ community or not. I name this love note queer in the original definition of the term. This is a love...
Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm”~ Esther Perel – Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...

Masturbation or Self-Pleasure?

The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...