The Origins of The Erotic Blueprint Types™

The Origins of The Erotic Blueprint Types™

It just hit me as I watched him shaking and gyrating in orgasmic delight. His eyes wide, “what’s happening?” he exclaimed! “You are wired energetically,” I said. His wife continued to hover her hands over his body as the volume of his turn-on rose. At that moment, all...
4 HOT TIPS FOR HAVING ‘THE TALK’…

4 HOT TIPS FOR HAVING ‘THE TALK’…

Your lips merge with your lover. Dancing and nibbling. Buttons unbutton, flesh connects, tingling and aching. Desire crescendos… And… It’s time to have “the talk.” You know, the sex talk. You’re in a new relationship and things are starting to get heated, there is...
3 Hot Tips for Fulfilling Foreplay

3 Hot Tips for Fulfilling Foreplay

One of the biggest complaints I get is that foreplay gets skipped. I’m here to help you become a better lover; so how do you give the best foreplay ever? Tip #1- Know Your Partner’s Erotic Blueprint™ Type Here’s a contradiction right out of the gate… Not everybody...
“I hate my body” and what to do about it!

“I hate my body” and what to do about it!

A friend recently wrote to me about how I seem so confident in my body and asked how I deal with body image issues and coming to peace in myself… Body image is a big issue for women and, believe it or not, all genders as well. I used to be over 200lbs and, let...
Anal Foreplay – The Forgotten Prelude to Anal Sex

Anal Foreplay – The Forgotten Prelude to Anal Sex

I’m always getting lots of questions about anal sex. This taboo topic is starting to come out of the dark (so to speak) and more and more partners are wanting to try it. They are curious and often their adventurous nature kills the pleasure that could be obtained....

My Unique Ingredient

A few years ago, if people told me that connecting to my sexuality means empowerment, I wouldn’t have believed them.  Now out of my own transformation, I coach people to be confident and connected through the lens of befriending their body and sexuality.  It is...
SERIOUSLY UNEDUCATED

SERIOUSLY UNEDUCATED

I am embarrassed to say that I taught sex education to 14 year olds as part of their health studies. At the time I was uncertain of the names of body parts even though I had given birth to three children. I know I muddled up uterus, vagina and vulva. And I know the...

Older and Better

A few facts: I am 62 years old. I identify as pansexual, pangender, and polyamorous. I am white from a privileged middle-class background. I have been married twice to women, the first time at 19 for a year and the second time at 28 for 28 years. My second wife abused...