It just hit me as I watched him shaking and gyrating in orgasmic delight. His eyes wide, “what’s happening?” he exclaimed! “You are wired energetically,” I said. His wife continued to hover her hands over his body as the volume of his turn-on rose. At that moment, all...
I thought the premise was a little silly at first… put cameras in my client’s bedrooms? Why? I had already been a successful sex coach for years. Why all of a sudden would I go from the standard model of talk-based sessions to a new, untested model? But still, I was...
We’re all hearing a lot about body positivity these days. The Body Positivity Movement even has its own Wikipedia entry! It says: “Body positivity is a social movement focused on the acceptance of all bodies, regardless of size, shape, skin tone, gender, and physical...
“Taking the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course transformed my world of pleasure!” ~ Kevin McCartan, Erotic Freedom Club Member These days, many of us have a number of intimate relationships throughout our adult lives, and a variety of sexual partners. Maybe we...
Supercharged, hot sex isn’t just for people in their 20s and 30s! Although surrounding culture might have us believe that – movies and porn are filled with young, supple bodies having sex. Society tells the same story over and over… that your sex life declines...
As human beings, we are comprised of so many things… Our spirits. Our energy fields. Our souls. Our memories and stories. Our minds. Our desires, dreams, and fears. And our bodies. It can be argued that all of these things existed before we came into physical being,...
Hello Dear, I am dropping in for Pride month with a queer love note to all of you. This love note does not discriminate, it is for you whether you are in the LGBTQIA+ community or not. I name this love note queer in the original definition of the term. This is a love...
Earth. Gaia. Terra. Earth Mother. Great Mother. Mother Goddess. Magna Mater. Mama. She demonstrates to us through her actions. Her language communicates to us through our senses. There is no lip service here. She whispers her ways to us. Her all knowing ways. Ways...
“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm”~ Esther Perel – Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...
The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...
