A friend recently wrote to me about how I seem so confident in my body and asked how I deal with body image issues and coming to peace in myself… Body image is a big issue for women and, believe it or not, all genders as well. I used to be over 200lbs and, let...
I’m always getting lots of questions about anal sex. This taboo topic is starting to come out of the dark (so to speak) and more and more partners are wanting to try it. They are curious and often their adventurous nature kills the pleasure that could be obtained....
A few years ago, if people told me that connecting to my sexuality means empowerment, I wouldn’t have believed them. Now out of my own transformation, I coach people to be confident and connected through the lens of befriending their body and sexuality. It is...
I am embarrassed to say that I taught sex education to 14 year olds as part of their health studies. At the time I was uncertain of the names of body parts even though I had given birth to three children. I know I muddled up uterus, vagina and vulva. And I know the...
Our sexuality can be complex! When it comes to your turn on, are you always raring to go? Maybe at some stages of your life, you’ve had a raging libido and you felt so much aliveness and desire. Other times, not so much 🙁 Achieving sexual satisfaction can be confusing...
A few facts: I am 62 years old. I identify as pansexual, pangender, and polyamorous. I am white from a privileged middle-class background. I have been married twice to women, the first time at 19 for a year and the second time at 28 for 28 years. My second wife abused...
Where are you on the sexuality dial? Are you happily cruising at a yummy 8? Or are you down at a trickle at about a 2? Where would you like to be? Do you know what is possible for you? Personally, I have spent time at every number on the dial over the past several...
In this latest interview, Extraordinary Living’s Jackie Senatore and Ian talk about his mission, along with over 100 Certified £rotic Blueprint Coaches™, to release shame around s£x, helping people empower themselves to reclaim the pleasure and true £rotic expression...
If kinky is your primary Erotic BlueprintTM, then go for it! Enjoy! However, if sex causes you unwanted pain, even a little bit, that’s NOT normal. Understand that you are not alone. Not by a long shot. As many as 3 out of 4 people with vulvas and vaginas report...
Guest post by Elizabeth Wood, certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach, MSW, CSSE, CTE, BC With full disclosure, I am not an MD. I don’t own a white coat (although I occasionally suffer white coat syndrome) and I don’t use a prescription pad. If I were a doctor in a past...
