It just hit me as I watched him shaking and gyrating in orgasmic delight. His eyes wide, “what’s happening?” he exclaimed! “You are wired energetically,” I said. His wife continued to hover her hands over his body as the volume of his turn-on rose. At that moment, all...
Your lips merge with your lover. Dancing and nibbling. Buttons unbutton, flesh connects, tingling and aching. Desire crescendos… And… It’s time to have “the talk.” You know, the sex talk. You’re in a new relationship and things are starting to get heated, there is...
One of the biggest complaints I get is that foreplay gets skipped. I’m here to help you become a better lover; so how do you give the best foreplay ever? Tip #1- Know Your Partner’s Erotic Blueprint™ Type Here’s a contradiction right out of the gate… Not everybody...
Guest blog written by Anika Anastasia He slid into me like a nail in the coffin of my faith. I knew penetration rocketed me past the point of turning back. I wouldn’t return to Mormonism. It wasn’t my first or last intentional sabotage. After he and I buried the...
A friend recently wrote to me about how I seem so confident in my body and asked how I deal with body image issues and coming to peace in myself… Body image is a big issue for women and, believe it or not, all genders as well. I used to be over 200lbs and, let...
I’m always getting lots of questions about anal sex. This taboo topic is starting to come out of the dark (so to speak) and more and more partners are wanting to try it. They are curious and often their adventurous nature kills the pleasure that could be obtained....
A few years ago, if people told me that connecting to my sexuality means empowerment, I wouldn’t have believed them. Now out of my own transformation, I coach people to be confident and connected through the lens of befriending their body and sexuality. It is...
I am embarrassed to say that I taught sex education to 14 year olds as part of their health studies. At the time I was uncertain of the names of body parts even though I had given birth to three children. I know I muddled up uterus, vagina and vulva. And I know the...
Our sexuality can be complex! When it comes to your turn on, are you always raring to go? Maybe at some stages of your life, you’ve had a raging libido and you felt so much aliveness and desire. Other times, not so much 🙁 Achieving sexual satisfaction can be confusing...
A few facts: I am 62 years old. I identify as pansexual, pangender, and polyamorous. I am white from a privileged middle-class background. I have been married twice to women, the first time at 19 for a year and the second time at 28 for 28 years. My second wife abused...
