There’s a form of sex that, for some, can appear to be quite strange.

If you caught Sex Love & Goop on Netflix you may have witnessed something extraordinary…

Me and Ian demonstrating an Energetic Orgasm.

If you’ve never witnessed this type of orgasm before… you may have found yourself thinking, “Is this even real?” “Is that possible?”

If you’ve never experienced this type of orgasmic sensation… when it first occurs, you may wonder, “What’s happening to me?” or potentially even feel like, “I’m weird,” or “Something must be wrong with me.”

If it’s a great or exciting experience for you… you may be instantly hooked and desire to feel it again and want to know how to create the experience over and over.

After this fascinating experience first occurs, people will sometimes send me emails like this one.

“Dear Jaiya,
Hello, I just found your page and have been watching your videos and LOVE them.
I have a very nice and supporting sexual body and I had an energy orgasm during a workshop doing Tibetan pulsing and IT BLEW MY BODY APART and my hole sacrum was on fire for hours.
It was amazing and it took me by surprise.
I would love to have that again.
Do you have any experience of that?
Any tips on how to get that again, after that session I often get laughing orgasms. I laugh a lot and it’s so nice.
I’m a woman of 51 years young and I want to stay as a sexual woman all my life.
Thanks E. (name not used to protect the sender)”

Here’s my response…

Dear E,

Congratulations to you for 1) experiencing an Energetic Orgasm and 2) for being committed to your sexuality for a lifetime.

Thanks for this awesome question.

I love ENERGETIC SEX – and Energy Orgasms are my favorite.

First, let me backup a little bit.

What is energetic sex?

Answer: It can be hands-off, clothes-on sex with the potential to experience a physical or energetic orgasm.


Every human being is made up of energy, and we can use our erotic energy for many purposes – one being pleasure. Many people can experience ecstasy without physical touch or sexual intercourse.

Energy orgasms feel like pleasurable waves moving through the body.

They can be explosive, ecstatic, hot, melting, tingling, and energizing.

They usually start at the sacrum (the triangular bone at the base of the spine) and rise up the spine. Although, the truth is, you can feel these types of orgasms anywhere on the body.

E, to answer your question, Yes I have experienced this – many, many times. I actually experience it on a daily basis. I can use my thoughts to induce this type of orgasm in my body.

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My tips for accessing Energetic Orgasms again and again?

The 4 P’s

1) Practice: Just like developing your orgasm muscles, you have to develop your energetic muscles. Practice the tools that helped you get there in the first place. For me, those tools include; breathing, intention, touch, movement, sound, and erotic thought.

Breath is one of the most potent tools. Transmutation breath is often the gateway to opening your energetic body.

Here’s a breath exercise I love:
(read it once through then give it a try)

Get yourself close to a “normal” genital orgasm and before you cum, stop yourself from cumming by taking a big inhale and contracting your pelvic root (the area around your pelvis).

Hold that breath and squeeze all your muscles in your body.

Hold, hold, hold.

Before you release your breath, take a sniff in through your nose.

Then release.

When you release your breath, imagine the released sexual energy moving out into all parts of your body.

You’re transmuting the sexual energy. Feel the orgasms spread through your entire body and slowly move back into building towards another orgasm and repeat.

Important note: if you’re going to try this with a lover, let them know what you’re doing beforehand so you don’t freak them out 😉

2) Patience: Be patient with yourself and don’t give up quickly. To get results, you have to keep playing with the tools of energetic orgasm, even if it looks like nothing is happening and you’re not getting consistent results.

3) Pleasure: Allow pleasure to move through your entire body, not just staying localized to your genitals.

See if you can drive pleasure to specific places in your body by focusing your awareness there, bringing your breath there, and moving your body to incorporate those parts of you.

For instance: Try to move all of the pleasure from your genitals to the tip of your pinky finger and see what happens.

4) Permission: I find that many people just need permission to go there.

Along with energetic orgasms comes the “twitches.” Your body can convulse, twitch or roll in spinal undulations. Many Energetics who don’t know what they are experiencing, think they are just really weird and will hide this expression from a partner. You may have been shamed for your energetic orgasms by a partner who didn’t know what was happening.

Give yourself permission to laugh like crazy, be in total bliss and ecstasy, have the most pleasure ever, and go mad as a hatter.

When you give over to the experience, you have profound results.

I know that you can get there anytime you desire, you just have to find the pathways that work for you on a regular basis.

It’s similar to having your first clitoral orgasm. Once you find it a few times, you’ve got it and you can get there again once you have the map.


Fill your life with pleasure,


p.s. This is a big subject for this little blog. The good news is that one of our Erotic Blueprint Types™ is the Energetic. By going deeper into our offerings, you can expand your Energetic knowledge and skills!

Start by taking the In-Depth Erotic Blueprint Quiz to discover your entire Pleasure Profile and receive your Erotic Blueprint Report. If the Energetic is not your primary, you can get all 5 Reports here to help you practice the blissful energetic superpowers.

“Our compatibility has gone through the roof…how to be pleased. How to ask to be sexually pleased. How to please you (your partner) sexually. How to experience not only the orgasms we were already having and the ecstatic pleasure that we were already living, but now to have it magnify and multiply and go to whole new levels. It feels like we’re starting our relationship again!“

Satyen and Suzanne Raja

Embrace what has been buried and shamed in your body for thousands of years.

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