If you’re like most people, you received zero education about your own erotic wiring. Yes, if we were fortunate, we were at least taught the biology (plumbing), and unfortunate, maybe given some moral framework (sex and pleasure are bad). However, we were never handed...

The "effort paradox" in dead bedrooms. The harder he tries, the more pressure she feels, the more her brakes engage, the less desire she experiences, the more rejected he feels, the harder he tries. This is a devastating feedback loop that kills desire and often leads...

Do you know how to meet your lover’s needs? Fulfilling their deepest desires requires knowing their Blueprint Type™ and mastering the art of Blueprintifying sex techniques to match each technique to their turn-ons. Many of us are starving to be deeply seen by our...

Music is a pleasure-making element that you can add to any of your sexcapades and the type of music can heighten the pleasure of whatever activity you’re engaging in… even when making love to yourself! However, music isn’t just for lovemaking; it’s an amazing tool for...

Do you feel connected to your ancestors? Halloween/Samhain is believed to be the day where the veil between the living and the dead is the thinnest; while popular culture may choose to celebrate by eating tiny candies and wearing costumes, there are those who use the...

What masks do you wear when…​ What masks do you wear when it comes to your eroticism? Masks can show up in so many different forms - to cover up shame about what you truly desire, to mask the fact that you have no idea what you desire or to hide that you’re overriding...