Lubricant is a topic not without stigma, as there’s a belief that the body “should” produce enough natural lubricant for penetrative activity. The truth is that the presence, or lack thereof, of lubrication in the genitals is not an indicator of arousal or a readiness...
Keep Going: The role of celebration in consistency
Doing the work on sexuality isn’t easy; for many of us, sex and sexuality are the last places we want to look since society doesn’t really give us a sex-positive blueprint to go by when navigating our own sexual expansion and the challenges that arise as a result of...
Explosive Touch: An exploration of nonsexual touch by the Blueprints
The Erotic Blueprints™ aren’t just about sex… and there’s nothing “just” about sex! In fact, there are many ways you can play with touch in accordance with your Blueprint in a nonsexual context so that you don’t have to wait until you’re in the bedroom to experience...
Play Ball: Blueprintifying the penis and testicle experience
Do you know how to make your favorite nutty snack even more tantalizing and satisfying? If you’re approaching the male pleasure organ with the same old approach… It may be time to Blueprintify your ball play! Energetic Blueprint™: This is the place to play with penis...
Ask for What You Want, GET What You Want: A tool to help you take the unease out of communication
You get to have what you want. For most of us, we don’t dare to dream big when it comes to our desires because we don’t think that we can have it. However, while choosing silence is an option, choosing it tends to foster more disconnection between humans rather than...
The Myth of Too Much: An exploration of the Shapeshifter shadow
July 22nd is Lion’s Share Day, a day for asking for - and getting - more than your fair share. After all, the lion’s share of anything divided among different parties is the biggest share of whatever is being divided! Which Blueprint Type™ is all about the more? Why,...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™
Which One Are You?