There are always lots of questions that come in regarding orgasms. Many people access orgasm easily and many can’t ever seem to get there. If orgasms are elusive or you just want more, more, more, it may be time to open up the menu of orgasmic possibilities and expand...
Vaginal Hot Spots – 2 Can Be More Fun Than 1
I created a new technique a few days ago when I was thinking about the two sponges inside the vagina. My theory was that when stimulated in the same way these two spots would ignite with pleasure. After trying it out with a partner, I learned that I was right. Boy,...
From No Sex To Threesomes?
Are You Making Too Much Meaning Out Of Your Sexuality Stage? I looked over at Ian. “If you want sex, just let me know. I could take it or leave it.” It has been three months since my sexuality stage and Erotic Blueprint™ Type had shifted. Ian was used to me initiating...
TRAUMA AND PTSD: MY MIRACLE HEALING THE KILLERS OF CONNECTION AND PLEASURE – Part 2
Trigger Warning: This article discusses trauma, abuse, rape and the effects of such trauma. Also, please note that this is incredibly vulnerable territory, I’m taking a deep breath and sharing my personal story with you in hopes to help others who have had experiences...
TRAUMA AND PTSD: HEALING THESE KILLERS OF CONNECTION AND PLEASURE – PART 1
Trigger Warning: This article discusses trauma, abuse, rape and the effects of such trauma. Also, please note that this is incredibly vulnerable territory, I’m taking a deep breath and sharing my personal story with you in hopes to help others who have had experiences...
The Wonderful Necessity of Pride
In 1979, I was living in Houston, (I grew up south of there in a small town), 19 years old, and about to be married for the first time. My then girlfriend was a court reporter, and she was asked to help take a transcript of the Pride convocation. This was the 10th...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™

Which One Are You?





