The Erotic Blueprints® are a transformational tool that empowers people with a brand new language to successfully get their needs met and desires fulfilled in the bedroom and beyond. They were decades in the making. Jaiya reveals their origins and the influences that gave birth to this (r)evolutionary framework.
Comparison is the thief of joy, even when that comparison is to ourselves! That said, it can be scary and downright frustrating when it seems like all of a sudden we’re no longer experiencing the levels of pleasure, connection and intimacy we were in the past. Rather...
There’s a form of sex that, for some, can appear to be quite strange. If you caught Sex Love & Goop on Netflix you may have witnessed something extraordinary… Me and Ian demonstrating an Energetic Orgasm. If you’ve never witnessed this type of orgasm before… you...
-It’s date night. You and your lover are snuggled up, pressed skin to skin. Relaxation fills your body as you finally claim some much needed time to connect. Then they whisper their deepest fantasy into your ear. You feel their turn on, their craving to be erotically...
Which One Are You?
If you’re like most people, you received zero education about your own erotic wiring. Yes, if we were fortunate, we were at least taught the biology (plumbing), and unfortunate, maybe given some moral framework (sex and pleasure are bad). However, we were never handed...
The "effort paradox" in dead bedrooms. The harder he tries, the more pressure she feels, the more her brakes engage, the less desire she experiences, the more rejected he feels, the harder he tries. This is a devastating feedback loop that kills desire and often leads...
You didn’t just fall in love. You fell into a chemical storm. In the beginning, you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. You stayed up until 3 a.m. talking. The anticipation of a text message sent shivers down your spine. But fast forward five, ten, or twenty...
What if your whole life got to be based on pleasure? If pleasure was your way of life? That’s what the Erotic Blueprints™ can do for you when you make pleasure the main ingredient in your self-care. I always giggle a little bit when I tell people I’m an Erotic...
Doing the work on sexuality isn’t easy; for many of us, sex and sexuality are the last places we want to look since society doesn’t really give us a sex-positive blueprint to go by when navigating our own sexual expansion and the challenges that arise as a result of...
The Erotic Blueprints™ aren’t just about sex… and there’s nothing “just” about sex! In fact, there are many ways you can play with touch in accordance with your Blueprint in a nonsexual context so that you don’t have to wait until you’re in the bedroom to experience...
Do you know how to make your favorite nutty snack even more tantalizing and satisfying? If you’re approaching the male pleasure organ with the same old approach… It may be time to Blueprintify your ball play! Energetic Blueprint™: This is the place to play with penis...
You get to have what you want. For most of us, we don’t dare to dream big when it comes to our desires because we don’t think that we can have it. However, while choosing silence is an option, choosing it tends to foster more disconnection between humans rather than...
Which Blueprint Type™ is all about the more? Why, the Shapeshifter Blueprint™ of course! The Shapeshifter Blueprint has a huge capacity for pleasure because their turn-ons span all across the other four Blueprints: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual and Kinky. A Shapeshifter...
Which One Are You?