Can A Long-Term Relationship REALLY Stay Hot?

Can A Long-Term Relationship REALLY Stay Hot?

“Can a couple in a long-term relationship really keep the sexual spark?” I asked a leading sexologist, a Ph.D., as we walked to dinner. “Nope,” he said. “Especially when children are involved. We just aren’t wired that way.” I felt let down by his response, since, at...
Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

Radical Honesty and Sexual Transparency

A while back, I was driving to San Diego with a fellow sex educator. We were both heading down from LA to teach at a weekend Tantra festival. As we chatted passionately about our work and our lives the topic of transparency came up. It’s a topic I think about often. I...
Reclaim Your Pleasure!

Reclaim Your Pleasure!

3 Steps to Healthy and Fulfilling Sexual Satisfaction   Are you tasting every juicy morsel of your own delicious sexuality? If not, why not? Let’s face it, there are lots of reasons you may be cut off from living a sexually expressed and fulfilling life. Expressing...
Safety is Sexy!  And Consent is the Key!

Safety is Sexy! And Consent is the Key!

What were you taught about consent? What do you wish you had been taught instead? ******* Content Warning: This post includes stories of Abuse, Assault, Survival and Consent Breaks If you’re not sure what consent in sexual encounters means, and you’re triggered by...