Are You Making Too Much Meaning Out Of Your Sexuality Stage? I looked over at Ian. “If you want sex, just let me know. I could take it or leave it.” It has been three months since my sexuality stage and Erotic Blueprint™ Type had shifted. Ian was used to me initiating...
Gratified or grumbling? How’s your lover feeling in bed?
What Do You Believe About Yourself In BED? Do you think you are a great lover? Or, have you had an experience that leads you to believe that you’re lousy at pleasuring your partner(s)? Do you give up before you even try? Has performance anxiety taken over your ability...
Your Greatest Asset in Bed
"At the touch of a lover, everyone becomes a poet." ~Plato I sometimes think I am the most fortunate woman in the world. I seem to attract lovers who have one amazing skill in common: the exquisite use of their hands. Yes, I love their cocks, their mouths, and...
Playful Restraint – Taking Bondage Out of the Dungeon
What images do you think of when you read the word "bondage"? When I asked this question to my Facebook followers I got a wide variety of responses from dark dungeons to scenes from movies like Pulp Fiction. Then there were responses about political and religious...
Erotic Story Telling: The Power of Fantasy
Have you ever been so stuck in your head that, when you try to have sex with a lover, you can't focus on what’s happening in the moment and you lose all arousal? When sex is just about to begin is often when my mind starts going crazy. It's like a monkey jumping...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™
Which One Are You?