Sexual Blueprints - where are you? We want to celebrate you! So much of what we do here in the Erotic Blueprint™ world is about expanding the definition of sex and pleasure. While sex and pleasure can absolutely include all of the things the Sexual Blueprint considers...
In Pursuit of Ecstasy: How the Sexual Blueprint™ shadow can be a path to healing
How great does it feel to achieve a goal? That feeling of satisfaction for so many of us is unparalleled. On the flip side of that, how often does it happen that in achieving that goal, it seems like you blinked and a long period of time in your life has just passed...
Bring on the Juice: How cultivating a regular pleasure practice opens up new levels of ecstasy
Let’s talk about squirting… Squirting is language used typically to describe liquid that releases from the urethra of a vulva-bodied human when in a state of heightened arousal. At some level, it has become something that many aspire to and want to know how to make it...
Be Your Own Sex Detective: How to turn obstacles into pathways of pleasure
Comparison is the thief of joy, even when that comparison is to ourselves! That said, it can be scary and downright frustrating when it seems like all of a sudden we’re no longer experiencing the levels of pleasure, connection and intimacy we were in the past. Rather...
Five Secrets to Becoming the Ultimate Lover
Pleasure starts with you. It starts with understanding yourself so deeply that you can communicate your desires with a partner. Many of you have taken the Erotic Blueprint™ Quiz and have an understanding of your Blueprint Type™, but this is just the tip of the iceberg...
The Underdog: my journey to erotic ecstasy
When I was a kid, I was pulled into the principal’s office on a few different occasions. One of the more significant encounters happened when I was in 4th grade. A group of popular boys decided to team up on someone with Down’s Syndrome. I walked up to the ringleader...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™
Which One Are You?