What masks do you wear when… What masks do you wear when it comes to your eroticism? Masks can show up in so many different forms - to cover up shame about what you truly desire, to mask the fact that you have no idea what you desire or to hide that you’re overriding...
For the Love of Breasts
What would it be like to be absolutely in love with every part of your body? Can you even imagine it? When it comes to breasts, like any body part, we’re fed one single idea of what beautiful breasts look like. There are two options as the idea only varies based on...
Pleasure – the Main Ingredient: Self-Care by the Blueprints
What if your whole life got to be based on pleasure? If pleasure was your way of life? That’s what the Erotic Blueprints™ can do for you when you make pleasure the main ingredient in your self-care. I always giggle a little bit when I tell people I’m an Erotic...
Fun with Lube!
Lubricant is a topic not without stigma, as there’s a belief that the body “should” produce enough natural lubricant for penetrative activity. The truth is that the presence, or lack thereof, of lubrication in the genitals is not an indicator of arousal or a readiness...
Keep Going: The role of celebration in consistency
Doing the work on sexuality isn’t easy; for many of us, sex and sexuality are the last places we want to look since society doesn’t really give us a sex-positive blueprint to go by when navigating our own sexual expansion and the challenges that arise as a result of...
Explosive Touch: An exploration of nonsexual touch by the Blueprints
The Erotic Blueprints™ aren’t just about sex… and there’s nothing “just” about sex! In fact, there are many ways you can play with touch in accordance with your Blueprint in a nonsexual context so that you don’t have to wait until you’re in the bedroom to experience...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™

Which One Are You?






