Ian Ferguson
What’s better? Sex life by default or by design?

What’s better? Sex life by default or by design?

How can you assure that this year​ will be your sexiest year ever?   (Though: this article is written with couples in mind, the main advice applies just the same to the single folk - if you want a life filled with sexy satisfaction, that is.)   We are sold a myth that...

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A Pleasure Filled Approach to Optimal Health!

Do you feel healthy, vibrant and alive? Do you spend time on self care? If so, do you looooove prioritizing your health, or does it feel like a steep hill to climb and a daunting chore to maintain? If you’re not caring for your body, why not? If you could create...

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Solving “Sexual Incompatibility”

Solving “Sexual Incompatibility”

-It’s date night. You and your lover are snuggled up, pressed skin to skin. Relaxation fills your body as you finally claim some much needed time to connect. Then they whisper their deepest fantasy into your ear. You feel their turn on, their craving to be erotically...

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Replace “Boring Sex” With Orgasmic Living!

Replace “Boring Sex” With Orgasmic Living!

Photo by Lindsay Miller www.wildlyvisible.com As a society, we are ‘busier’ than ever. “Busy” is a badge of honor in our western world and it may be killing us in more ways than we understand. Because of the exaltation of “Busy” in our society, not only are we having...

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The Path to Awakened Sex Starts Here

All at once the candles are extinguished. And you are left to feel. The body bliss you crave, nowhere to be found. Your partner lay awake in silence next to you, also wondering when your relationship went stale...when the sex became less than. That’s the hunger...

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Semen – It’s Not Just For Making Babies!

Semen – It’s Not Just For Making Babies!

I love the magazine, Scientific American Mind. I'm such a geek when it comes to new research in human sexuality and I'm grateful that my friends all know this about me. When I started getting multiple links from them to an article about semen on the Scientific...

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