We talk a LOT about shame and sex around here. Yes, there are places (like the Erotic Freedom Club) where we can be free of the shame and it’s easy, open, and fun.
But out in the real world, it’s still taboo, a no-no to talk openly about sex.
You still can’t have conversations on the street about orgasms, sexual habits and interests, and the like. People get squeamish. They run away.
They get scared of themselves.
That’s why when Julianne Hough came out about consulting with Jaiya on hers and her husband’s Erotic Breakthrough QuizTM results, it was a big deal.
Yes, the conversations quickly turned toward their admission of toe-sucking adventures.
But That Wasn’t the End of That HOT Conversation (check out the podcast here).
After that, her husband, Brooks Laich, former-NHL-player-turned-podcast-host, reached out to Jaiya and had her as a guest on his show, “How Men Think”…bringing more of the taboo hotness out into the real world. Opening up the conversation and likely making more than a few people sweat nervously.
It’s these kinds of real world conversations that get those juices flowing.
During the show, some of the co-hosts remarked on how these conversations were turning them on.
They discussed things like “consensually” owning their partners with vibrating panties and taking this Kinky play out into the public and watching their partners squirm with pleasure, as they tried talking and mingling with others.
And what it’s like going down on a lover in a movie theater…you know…the things that turn us on because they’re things that we know we “shouldn’t” be doing…especially in public.
Brooks was a gracious host as Jaiya went through and discussed what each of the Erotic Blueprint Types actually feels and sees when it comes to turn-ons.
(Sexual) Freedom WITH Speech
Bringing conversations like these to the table often, and with people of influence, like Brooks and Julianne, helps us to take baby steps toward Jaiya’s mission of releasing people from shame, guilt, attachments, and the emotions that keep us from truly living our purpose and our passions, soul-open and free.
Because that’s what all of this orgasmic unchaining is about, isn’t it?
Freeing us to experience all the pleasure that’s possible!
Being able to be seen and felt – deeply and sincerely – is world-changing.
But to be able to live who we are, uninhibited and free, is a gift not only to ourselves, but to the generations that come after us, to the world, and the planet. The Butterfly Effect ripples these kinds of orgasmic energies out into time and space in ways that are not possible unless we are utterly unchained and free.
Because if she and her husband can get to that point where they are speaking freely and openly about their sex life, how the Erotic Blueprints opened the door for them, and their toe-sucking play, then there is hope for the rest of us to reach that point of freedom.
Speaking with freedom from shame, guilt and the other emotions that keep us from living our truths and feeling our bodies ripple with power and tingle of fulfilling pleasure.
The question remains: Are you willing to open yourself up and be unabashedly you, so that we can all feel your truth?
If you haven’t yet done so yet, learn what Erotic Blueprint Type you are!