Candles. Fragrances that ignite memories and possibilities. Flowers...roses to be exact... of the deepest shades of red. Barry White’s mellifluous bassy tones flowing through the air. The Sensual Blueprint’s dream. Or is it? The truth is the Sensual™ can be turned on...
One more night and you and your lover feel that slight “WTF just happened” feeling. Neither of you were in love with the sensations, but, hey, most people are not even having sex at all, much less good sex. So, you still win, right? Well, unsatisfying sex can feel no...
(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...
Dear Jaiya, I am 26 years old. My penis is too small. What can I do? N Dear N, Okay. Who told you that your penis is too small? What are you comparing yourself too? Is your penis too small compared to a porn star? Is it too small compared to the size of your partner's...
With all the spirituality floating around the internet, you may have heard an influencer or two talk about the benefits of gratitude. But you’re about to learn why GRATITUDE is a power tool for FOREPLAY, creating a greater sexual experience for you and your partner...
I think that people often make the mistake of thinking that their sexuality is something that is static and unchanging or should be. We put pressure on ourselves to always have high libidos and endless passion. Stop! Just like everything else in life, we go...
Which One Are You?