Guest blog written by Anika AnastasiaHe slid into me like a nail in the coffin of my faith. I knew penetration rocketed me past the point of turning back. I wouldn’t return to Mormonism. It wasn’t my first or last intentional sabotage. After he and I buried the...
A few years ago, if people told me that connecting to my sexuality means empowerment, I wouldn't have believed them. Now out of my own transformation, I coach people to be confident and connected through the lens of befriending their body and sexuality. It is not...
I am embarrassed to say that I taught sex education to 14 year olds as part of their health studies. At the time I was uncertain of the names of body parts even though I had given birth to three children. I know I muddled up uterus, vagina and vulva. And I know the...
A few facts: I am 62 years old. I identify as pansexual, pangender, and polyamorous. I am white from a privileged middle-class background. I have been married twice to women, the first time at 19 for a year and the second time at 28 for 28 years. My second wife abused...
Where are you on the sexuality dial? Are you happily cruising at a yummy 8? Or are you down at a trickle at about a 2? Where would you like to be? Do you know what is possible for you? Personally, I have spent time at every number on the dial over the past several...
If kinky is your primary Erotic BlueprintTM, then go for it! Enjoy! However, if sex causes you unwanted pain, even a little bit, that’s NOT normal. Understand that you are not alone. Not by a long shot. As many as 3 out of 4 people with vulvas and vaginas report...
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