It seems like there isn't a day that goes by that I don't get a letter from someone having a really hard time in life right now. From earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, migrant crisis, incredible political uncertainty, global economic hardship all the way down to their...
Are you suffering from challenges of getting or maintaining an erection? Is this hurting your confidence and sexual satisfaction? I get letters similar to this one from P. all the time. His situation has multiple layers to it, so I thought it would be a great letter...
Have you ever been so stuck in your head that, when you try to have sex with a lover, you can't focus on what’s happening in the moment and you lose all arousal? When sex is just about to begin is often when my mind starts going crazy. It's like a monkey jumping...
How much pleasure can you stand? How free are you to experience pleasure from your entire body, or a lover’s body? Do you feel cut off from pleasure, maybe you’re even detached, numb or you dissociate when playing with pleasure and connection?...
Your lips merge with your lover. Dancing and nibbling. Buttons unbutton, flesh connects, tingling and aching. Desire crescendos... And… It's time to have “the talk.” You know, the sex talk. You're in a new relationship and things are starting to get heated, there is...
A while back, I was driving to San Diego with a fellow sex educator. We were both heading down from LA to teach at a weekend Tantra festival. As we chatted passionately about our work and our lives, the topic of transparency came up. It’s a topic I think about often....
Which One Are You?