In last week’s Blog, I introduced you to the Empowered Erotic Personas - A Path to Erotic Freedom. Erotic Personas are pieces of our eroticism we have abandoned or dismissed. They are unlived truths about who we are, what we crave and how we express ourselves. I...
What are you hiding in there? What parts of your sexual expression and your erotic fantasies are going unlived? There are many reasons you might not let your erotic freak flag fly in our society. Slut shaming, man bashing, fear of ruffling people’s feathers and...
It seems like there isn't a day that goes by that I don't get a letter from someone having a really hard time in life right now. From earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, migrant crisis, incredible political uncertainty, global economic hardship all the way down to their...
Are you suffering from challenges of getting or maintaining an erection? Is this hurting your confidence and sexual satisfaction? I get letters similar to this one from P. all the time. His situation has multiple layers to it, so I thought it would be a great letter...
Have you ever been so stuck in your head that, when you try to have sex with a lover, you can't focus on what’s happening in the moment and you lose all arousal? When sex is just about to begin is often when my mind starts going crazy. It's like a monkey jumping...
How much pleasure can you stand? How free are you to experience pleasure from your entire body, or a lover’s body? Do you feel cut off from pleasure, maybe you’re even detached, numb or you dissociate when playing with pleasure and connection?...
Which One Are You?