For your holiday enjoyment this week we are bringing you two hot new deep dives into the Erotic Blueprints with our very own Ian Ferguson. On Intimate Conversations, Ian and intimacy expert Allana Pratt speak about his journey of being seen 100% and being his...
“I hate my body” and what to do about it!
A friend recently wrote to me about how I seem so confident in my body and asked how I deal with body image issues and coming to peace in myself... Body image is a big issue for women and, believe it or not, all genders as well. I used to be over 200lbs and, let me...
Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Our sexuality can be complex! When it comes to your turn on, are you always raring to go? Maybe at some stages of your life, you’ve had a raging libido and you felt so much aliveness and desire. Other times, not so much 🙁 Achieving sexual satisfaction can be...
Extraordinary Living Podcast: An Interview with Ian Ferguson
In this latest interview, Extraordinary Living’s Jackie Senatore and Ian talk about his mission, along with over 100 Certified £rotic Blueprint Coaches™, to release shame around s£x, helping people empower themselves to reclaim the pleasure and true £rotic expression...
Does Sex Hurt? It Shouldn’t. Not even a little bit.
If kinky is your primary Erotic BlueprintTM, then go for it! Enjoy! However, if sex causes you unwanted pain, even a little bit, that’s NOT normal. Understand that you are not alone. Not by a long shot. As many as 3 out of 4 people with vulvas and vaginas report...
Is Your Unique Pleasure Languishing? I’ve Got 23 Prescriptions for That!
Guest post by Elizabeth Wood, certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach, MSW, CSSE, CTE, BC With full disclosure, I am not an MD. I don’t own a white coat (although I occasionally suffer white coat syndrome) and I don’t use a prescription pad.If I were a doctor in a past...
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