Be good, Santa is coming. Be good so you get the bike and the dollhouse and the telescope you asked for. Be good because, if you’re not, Santa (we) won’t love you and give you the things you want. If you didn’t have Santa holding the hammer of judgment over you for...
The Power of Putting ‘Pleasure First!’
Guest Blog by Ian Ferguson Guess what? You are not the sum total of your circumstances! You are not your past! You are not your future! You are a magnificent being who has the ability to experience gratitude and aliveness anytime, anywhere. No, I’m not...
Demystifying Kink – Part 1 of 6: Can Pain Lead You to Deeper Pleasure?
Join me for a 6 part interview where I speak with 3 time Leather Master and Master Dom Orpheus Black…Click here or on the video below to watch now!Pain does not need to be part of Kinky play, but it certainly is one flavor worth exploring. In...
From No Sex To Threesomes?
Are You Making Too Much Meaning Out Of Your Sexuality Stage? I looked over at Ian. “If you want sex, just let me know. I could take it or leave it.” It has been three months since my sexuality stage and Erotic Blueprint™ Type had shifted. Ian was used to me initiating...
Is Seeking Help With Your Sex Life Shameful?
“The View” Judges Julianne Hough For Her Work With Erotic Blueprints™ This week, the Erotic Blueprints™ hit the media! Wow!! Julianne Hough, a brilliant actress and dancer, known for her work on Dancing With The Stars, courageously shared how understanding her...
Can sexy talk make you orgasm?
Content Warning: This blog has explicit words and concepts!! "Sally, he sex-talk-fucked a supermodel into cumming without touching her in his kitchen. If anything, he's up for an award."- from the film Fall When I was in college I saw a movie that really got me to...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™
Which One Are You?