One more night and you and your lover feel that slight “WTF just happened” feeling. Neither of you were in love with the sensations, but, hey, most people are not even having sex at all, much less good sex. So, you still win, right? Well, unsatisfying sex can feel no...
(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...
Be good, Santa is coming. Be good so you get the bike and the dollhouse and the telescope you asked for. Be good because, if you’re not, Santa (we) won’t love you and give you the things you want. If you didn’t have Santa holding the hammer of judgment over you for...
Guest Blog by Ian Ferguson Guess what? You are not the sum total of your circumstances! You are not your past! You are not your future! You are a magnificent being who has the ability to experience gratitude and aliveness anytime, anywhere. No, I’m not...
Join me for a 6 part interview where I speak with 3 time Leather Master and Master Dom Orpheus Black…Click here or on the video below to watch now!Pain does not need to be part of Kinky play, but it certainly is one flavor worth exploring. In...
Are You Making Too Much Meaning Out Of Your Sexuality Stage? I looked over at Ian. “If you want sex, just let me know. I could take it or leave it.” It has been three months since my sexuality stage and Erotic Blueprint™ Type had shifted. Ian was used to me initiating...
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