“Can a couple in a long-term relationship really keep the sexual spark?” I asked a leading sexologist, a Ph.D., as we walked to dinner. “Nope,” he said. “Especially when children are involved. We just aren’t wired that way.” I felt let down by his response, since, at...
A while back, I was driving to San Diego with a fellow sex educator. We were both heading down from LA to teach at a weekend Tantra festival. As we chatted passionately about our work and our lives, the topic of transparency came up. It’s a topic I think about often....
3 Steps to Healthy and Fulfilling Sexual Satisfaction Are you tasting every juicy morsel of your own delicious sexuality? If not, why not? Let’s face it, there are lots of reasons you may be cut off from living a sexually expressed and fulfilling life....
What were you taught about consent? What do you wish you had been taught instead? ******* Content Warning: This post includes stories of Abuse, Assault, Survival and Consent Breaks If you’re not sure what consent in sexual encounters means, and you’re triggered by...
“We just don’t have the time to connect. The kids are out of school, he’s got mountains of work, and I don’t get enough “me” time as it is.” Marley tells me, the frustration clear in her voice. Her husband nods quietly in agreement. “I know the two of you want more...
I love teaching sex skills and erotic secrets to clients and showing them what’s erotically possible. From tantric practices to sensual touch exercises, to techniques for increased pleasure with intercourse all the way to kink practices to play safely with...
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