People often feel afraid they won’t or can’t truly satisfy their lovers. Do you relate? Even just a little bit? I’ve been deeply immersed in this work for a long time now and I still have moments of insecurity about truly fulfilling my lover(s). It’s my earnest desire...
Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about the “brakes” to accessing desire and pleasure: beliefs, judgments, and feelings that kill your access to enjoyment of your erotic body and mind. In Erotic Blueprints, these are called the “Shadows of your Blueprint” Each...
As a society, we are ‘busier’ than ever. “Busy” is a badge of honor in our western world and it may be killing us in more ways than we understand. Because of the exaltation of “Busy” in our society, not only are we having less sex than ever, we tend to resort to our...
The candles are dying out. Your mind still hovers somewhere outside your body as the sweat beads and rolls down the curve of your back. The tingling coursing through your body connects you to your vibrant, radiant, orgasmic aliveness. “YES!!” It’s rare that you’ve...
