Month: January 2020

The Achilles’ Heel of the Sensual Blueprint™

Candles. Fragrances that ignite memories and possibilities. Flowers...roses to be exact... of the deepest shades of red. Barry White’s mellifluous bassy tones flowing through the air. The Sensual Blueprint’s dream. Or is it? The truth is the Sensual™ can be turned on...

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The Unexpected Way to Become A Hot AF Lover

The Unexpected Way to Become A Hot AF Lover

One more night and you and your lover feel that slight “WTF just happened” feeling. Neither of you were in love with the sensations, but, hey, most people are not even having sex at all, much less good sex. So, you still win, right? Well, unsatisfying sex can feel no...

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Four Keys to Turning Unexpected Emotions Into Erotic Fuel

Four Keys to Turning Unexpected Emotions Into Erotic Fuel

(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...

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My p£nis is too small.  What can I do?

My p£nis is too small. What can I do?

Dear Jaiya, I am 26 years old. My penis is too small. What can I do? N Dear N, Okay. Who told you that your penis is too small? What are you comparing yourself too? Is your penis too small compared to a porn star? Is it too small compared to the size of your partner's...

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