Sex is what connects us all.
We are all born from it.
It empowers (or disempowers) who we are.
It allows us to be our most primal with those whom we choose to share our souls with.
And it can be a key indicator of our vitality and fulfillment.
These truths are not all evident to everyone.
And Jaiya’s interview on the goop Podcast helped unlock many of the biases and assumptions that people hold true that put the breaks on their sexual health and pleasure.
Jaiya’s deeply engaging exchange busted myths and tackled issues like:
- Penis bodied people are not all the Sexual Blueprint™!
- If you’re Kinky, this does not mean you have necessarily experienced sexual trauma!
As Jaiya and Ian explored the Blueprints while they were evolving, Jaiya discovered that even though someone likes to be tied up or to take part in Kinky play, it doesn’t have to hint back to a particular way they were brought up or some painful past.
Shame of kinky desires and inherited beliefs that taboo play is “bad” or “wrong”, puts an unnecessary stigma on many Kinky Types.
As long as the activities are done in a consenting manner and the boundaries of play are understood by all parties, and each party can rescind their consent at any time, why not drop the judgement and Just Have Fun!!!
Safely, of course!! Always safely. Especially with kinky play it is vital that you get professional training so you have the skills required to play safely.
Jaiya and Ian decided to have fun in this realm and the sexual satisfaction in their relationship continued to blossom and intimacy and passion increased.
- Being out of step when it comes to sharing turn ons with your partner, does not mean you’re incompatible.
If you’re experiencing this type of mismatch in your relationship, your best bet is to get some fun and informed guidance on how to get your needs met and how to become the ultimate lover.
If you’re ready to explore and expand…
If you’re ready to claim what you desire…
If you’re ready to discover all that’s erotically possible…
Then take the delicious dive into Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course! (There’s a special offer in the p.s. of this blog post, don’t miss it!)
Jaiya and Elise Loehnen, Gwyneth Paltrow’s Chief Content Officer and Goop Podcast host, dove headlong into a couple of “what ifs” on the podcast.
“What if someone doesn’t have any desire to take part in what you described as the ‘three-hour marathon,” asked Elise?
“How do you coax people back into the game?”
Jaiya’s response was powerful, empowering, and inspiring.
It came back to: None of us are broken!
If the three-hour marathon doesn’t appeal to you because you’re approaching it as though it’s work. Don’t.
However, you can give yourself the chance to sample a three-hour sex marathon and see if it really is something you would only want once in a while, not at all, or all the time.
It comes back to letting ourselves really feel into being WHOLE, not being driven by ticking off boxes, and allowing ourselves the freedom to experience, then choose.
It all comes back to “What’s erotically possible?”
Jaiya continued, “That’s what I get really excited about. The possibilities are endless and that’s what happens when you can crack open and explore what really is erotically possible.”
You can claim your pleasure and discover who you really are!
What’s possible for your pleasure?
What’s possible for you and your partner’s pleasure?
- Uncover your personal pleasure map, so you know exactly what you desire!
- Discover the language of erotic communication, so you can speak your desires and get them fulfilled!
- Feed your turn ons so you live life feeling erotically satisfied!
- Heal the shadows of your sexuality, so you’re free to be you!
- Expand to see, understand, and feel what it’s like to live an orgasmic life…a life FULL of pleasure.
Are you ready to crack open and experience some contagious passion?
Then you’re ready to join us for the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Course!
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