You’re not too much! It’s not that your sexual appetite is too demanding. It’s not that you need to dial back who you are in the bedroom… or the kitchen… or the sauna… or wherever. What “it” is, is others’ inability to read and feed you. If you’ve ever found yourself...
A note about Kinky Exploration: Get educated about safety and consent when exploring the Kinky Blueprint™. These topics are important for any Blueprint Type, but getting an education about safe and proper play in the Kink realm is particularly important. If you’re new...
(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...
Dear Jaiya, I am 26 years old. My penis is too small. What can I do? N Dear N, Okay. Who told you that your penis is too small? What are you comparing yourself too? Is your penis too small compared to a porn star? Is it too small compared to the size of your partner's...
I love the magazine, Scientific American Mind. I'm such a geek when it comes to new research in human sexuality and I'm grateful that my friends all know this about me. When I started getting multiple links from them to an article about semen on the Scientific...
I think that people often make the mistake of thinking that their sexuality is something that is static and unchanging or should be. We put pressure on ourselves to always have high libidos and endless passion. Stop! Just like everything else in life, we go...
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