Hi friend, I want to ask you a question and I invite you to be really honest with yourself. Do you feel like you can be authentic in every area of your life? In the Erotic Blueprint™ community we talk about authenticity in the bedroom, but what if the erotic...
One of the many things that haunts people when it comes to sex is ‘talking about sex.” Most people don’t know how to communicate their needs in ways that nurture trust and deepen connection in their relationship. When there is a lack in communication skills, all the...
You’re not too much! It’s not that your sexual appetite is too demanding. It’s not that you need to dial back who you are in the bedroom… or the kitchen… or the sauna… or wherever. What “it” is, is others’ inability to read and feed you. If you’ve ever found yourself...
A note about Kinky Exploration: Get educated about safety and consent when exploring the Kinky Blueprint™. These topics are important for any Blueprint Type, but getting an education about safe and proper play in the Kink realm is particularly important. If you’re new...
(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...
Dear Jaiya, I am 26 years old. My penis is too small. What can I do? N Dear N, Okay. Who told you that your penis is too small? What are you comparing yourself too? Is your penis too small compared to a porn star? Is it too small compared to the size of your partner's...
Which One Are You?