Pleasure in these uncertain times is not a luxury, it’s a vital, life saving practice! When you need protection from imminent danger, cortisol is sent coursing through your body to help you make split decisions, give you super strength, and ultra fast speeds. That’s...
“Marriage was a relationship of a dominant male to a subordinate female,” she told them. “That ended as a result of this court’s decision in 1982 when Louisiana’s Head and Master Rule was struck down…”, RBG’s argument on Obergefell v. Hodges, 2015 This is not a...
Sexy. Sultry. Full on. All out. Fully You! Your Aliveness is Directly Related to Your Level of Sexual Freedom and Eroticism. When you are sexually free, free of resentment, guilt, shame, and all the negative emotions that affect how you feel about your eroticism, you...
(IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT THIS BLOG: When writing about authentic erotic and sexual expression in this article, I am referring to conscientious, consent based intimacy between aware, educated and informed adults.) This is Ian. Let me introduce you to Puddles and...
People often feel afraid they won’t or can’t truly satisfy their lovers. Do you relate? Even just a little bit? I’ve been deeply immersed in this work for a long time now and I still have moments of insecurity about truly fulfilling my lover(s). It’s my earnest desire...
Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about the “brakes” to accessing desire and pleasure: beliefs, judgments, and feelings that kill your access to enjoyment of your erotic body and mind. In Erotic Blueprints, these are called the “Shadows of your Blueprint” Each...
Which One Are You?