Trigger Warning: This article discusses trauma, abuse, rape and the effects of such trauma. Also, please note that this is incredibly vulnerable territory, I’m taking a deep breath and sharing my personal story with you in hopes to help others who have had experiences...
Do You Have to Be Spiritual to Have Tantric Sex?
I started my Tantric quest in my late teen years, just before entering a new decade life discovery. I was drawn to Tantra because it was a spiritual path that allowed sexuality as a gateway to enlightenment. Instead of seeing the body as sinful or bad, it was a path...
Loving Unconditionally – Can I still have boundaries?
Can we talk about LOVE for a moment? I've always been a lover. Not just in the sexual sense, I've been that too... but I mean that I've always been a big-hearted person who just loves. Somewhere in all the trauma and in all the hurts, I lost my way in the past few...
Staying Connected During Hard Times
It seems like there isn't a day that goes by that I don't get a letter from someone having a really hard time in life right now. From earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, migrant crisis, incredible political uncertainty, global economic hardship all the way down to their...
Battling Erectile Dysfunction
Are you suffering from challenges of getting or maintaining an erection? Is this hurting your confidence and sexual satisfaction? I get letters similar to this one from P. all the time. His situation has multiple layers to it, so I thought it would be a great letter...
Conscious Self Pleasure – A Path to Sexual Wholeness
How much pleasure can you stand? How free are you to experience pleasure from your entire body, or a lover’s body? Do you feel cut off from pleasure, maybe you’re even detached, numb or you dissociate when playing with pleasure and connection?...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™
Which One Are You?