Pleasure. Rapture. Mother Love.

Pleasure. Rapture. Mother Love.

Earth. Gaia. Terra. Earth Mother. Great Mother. Mother Goddess. Magna Mater. Mama. She demonstrates to us through her actions. Her language communicates to us through our senses. There is no lip service here. She whispers her ways to us. Her all knowing ways. Ways...
Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style

“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm”~ Esther Perel – Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

How can we support Ukraine’s voices?

As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...

Masturbation or Self-Pleasure?

The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...

Secrets to life-long passion revealed

Life-long passion doesn’t happen by accident. The partnership that thrives and is full of turn-on and attraction and that lasts decades without work and cultivation is a myth. Are you living your sex life by default or by design? In this interview with Alexa Martinez...
How I healed by creating amazing sex!

How I healed by creating amazing sex!

Through the cultivation of my sexuality, my body is no longer my enemy! It is the richest source of pleasure! Recently I realized that I am way more holistic than most of my friends! In my early 60’s, I am younger and more resilient in outlook – able to go with the...
What Is Energetic Sex?

What Is Energetic Sex?

There’s a form of sex that, for some, can appear to be quite strange. If you caught Sex Love & Goop on Netflix you may have witnessed something extraordinary… Me and Ian demonstrating an Energetic Orgasm. If you’ve never witnessed this type of orgasm before… you...
From Knowing to Living

From Knowing to Living

As we transition from the old year to the new let’s set aside all the “new year, new you” and the “striving to be your best self” and focus in on what is something you know that you want for your sex life in this moment, this week, this month? What is it that you know...
Intimate Conversations and More

Intimate Conversations and More

For your holiday enjoyment this week we are bringing you two hot new deep dives into the Erotic Blueprints with our very own Ian Ferguson.  On Intimate Conversations, Ian and intimacy expert Allana Pratt speak about his journey of being seen 100% and being his...