When the Full Moon takes to the sky this Halloween, October 31st, where will you be?
Will you be unleashing your inner beast because you know your limits and can play to your edges?
Will you let the werewolf run wild, knowing that you have the skills to conscientiously set his ravenous craving loose or rein him in and make him your obedient little puppy?
Would you love to feel the safety to indulge your deepest desires?
Would you love to fully surrender to your ecstasy?
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The surprising skill set that allows you to experience your orgasmic potential…
It’s not total careless abandon that lets you climb to the heights of ecstatic indulgence.
It’s your deep knowledge of your bodies “Yeses” and “Nos”.
It’s your healthy boundaries that lead to that time stopping orgiastic surrender.
When your body and soul feel safe, they can release, relax and expand!
(Yes, the aphrodisiac emotions of anticipation, mystery and fear can amp up your turn on, especially if you’re a Psychological Kinky Type™. But even this experience is best rooted in a solid knowing that your lover is taking care of your safety)
Play to your very edges where passion and desire thrive when you create containers of consent…
Most of us have let our boundaries be crossed.
Some of us have crossed other people’s boundaries.
In many, if not most, cases, this boundary break happens out of ignorance or arrogance.
It happens because we don’t know what our boundaries are or how to speak them. We weren’t taught how to direct our sexual energies so that they are expressed consciously.
We don’t know what we don’t know.
Who among us was given a powerful sex education about pleasure, about our physical sovereignty and how to speak up for our wants, desires and needs?
How can you reclaim your erotic agency and empower yourself to have the sex life you crave?
Step One: Increase Your Embodied Erotic Intelligence
Discover your unique map of arousal and learn the language to articulate your turn ons and turn offs.
In our western culture, most of us are taught to separate from our body’s desires. We inherit the belief that pleasure, especially self-pleasure is bad or wrong. We need to suppress our cravings so that we can be upstanding citizens who are pure in our thoughts and not indulging in our “impure” bodies.
We’ve got it backwards.
Our sexual health is directly related to our overall healthy, vitality, sense of belonging, well being and aliveness.
It’s time to embrace our sexual pleasure as a priority.
Embrace our pleasure as the foundation of living a fulfilling life.
Build your embodied erotic intelligence by exploring your body.
Learn your body and what it’s telling you.
Learn how to express your erotic truth.
Learn how to listen to your body and how to understand when it says, “Hell Yes!” and when it says “Hell No!”
Reclaiming your sexual sovereignty sets the stage for true orgasmic expansion.
Step 2: Use Your Voice, Declare Your Boundaries and Claim Your Pleasure!
Learn how to articulate what your body craves, so you can guide your lover(s) to give you what you need. Learn what your body needs so you can feed your own desires in your self pleasure.
Take note of your turn ons and turn offs.
Begin to put these pleasures into words, so you can be the master of your sexual satisfaction.
In exploring your body, or your lover’s body, you can build a vocabulary of arousal.
You may find pleasures or pains for which you have no words.
You may want to go higher, feel more and experience pleasures that are out of reach. Maybe you don’t know how to get there. Or you don’t know how to repeat something that blew you open to pleasure.
It’s all information.
Your curiosity will lead you to getting the guidance and teachers you need to reach these higher states of pleasure.
We have not been educated with a language of sexual satisfaction.
Most of us are stumbling around in the dark when it comes to intimate connection.
If you’re looking for guidance on how to explore your body or a lover’s body, if you’re seeking a language to get your needs met, our Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ framework is the only framework we know of that speaks to every form of erotic expression:
If you’re an Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky or Shapeshifter, you’ll find yourself inside of the Erotic Blueprints™. No part of your turn on needs to be left behind.
You don’t need anything to begin exploring your body.
It’s your body and you’re in it right now.
You just need to prioritize your exploration and play.
If you want to accelerate your growth, getting seasoned mentors to guide you is a great way to go.
If you’re ready to take your exploration deeper, always find experienced and effective mentors.
Step 3: Create Conscious Conversations With Your Lover(s) Where You Create Containers of Consent
When you know your body, you can declare your boundaries too
This is a deep and rewarding practice.
Calling out what you want and what you don’t want.
Honoring your boundaries and your lover’s boundaries creates trust.
When we establish trust, we create safety.
When we feel safe, our nervous system can relax. We can open to all the pleasure that is available in our bodies.
Even if you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, and you think you know your lover intimately, play with container conversations.
Practice making your intimate play highly conscious.
You may discover where you have not been sharing your true needs. You may discover that you have boundaries that you have never articulated and this lack of clarity, this lack of honoring your body, may have created a blockage in your pleasure and resentments that you’re holding in your body.
When you empower yourself to understand your unique physical language of arousal and connection and you can translate this into boundaried containers of consent, you free yourself to play to your very edges where passion and desire thrive.
Step 4: Prioritize Your Pleasure: Put Pleasure in Your Calendar Right Now!
Schedule your self-pleasure.
Schedule your times to play with a lover.
Live your sexual life by design, NOT by default.
Pleasure is not likely to happen unless you prioritize it, make time for it and dedicate yourself to it.
Would You Like Guidance and Support On Your Journey to Orgasmic Fulfillment?
We covered 4 powerful steps you can take to claim your pleasure starting right now.
However, to implement each of these steps powerfully and effectively, there’s a lot to learn.
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