Another day is beckoning. Are you craving to hide in your blanket fort and to find comfort in a delicious pizza? Are Netflix and Hulu getting stale? Another board game? Really? In this midst of all the shelter in place orders and the lack of consistency coming from...
All at once the candles are extinguished. And you are left to feel. The body bliss you crave, nowhere to be found. Your partner lay awake in silence next to you, also wondering when your relationship went stale...when the sex became less than. That’s the hunger...
You’re not too much! It’s not that your sexual appetite is too demanding. It’s not that you need to dial back who you are in the bedroom… or the kitchen… or the sauna… or wherever. What “it” is, is others’ inability to read and feed you. If you’ve ever found yourself...
Candles. Fragrances that ignite memories and possibilities. Flowers...roses to be exact... of the deepest shades of red. Barry White’s mellifluous bassy tones flowing through the air. The Sensual Blueprint’s dream. Or is it? The truth is the Sensual™ can be turned on...
One more night and you and your lover feel that slight “WTF just happened” feeling. Neither of you were in love with the sensations, but, hey, most people are not even having sex at all, much less good sex. So, you still win, right? Well, unsatisfying sex can feel no...
(This piece was a part of my writing for Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied. It has a kinky through line (yay!), and the tools shared here apply for every Blueprint Type. Enjoy!) Key #1: Know Them and Use Them As Fuel The first trick to using these emotions for arousal is to...
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