Have you got mad skills in this department?

Do you know how to create sexy and scintillating adventures for your lover?

If you’re in a life long partnership…

Every time you ask your lover on a date, do they perk up with delight, feel turned on, and can’t wait to find out what you have in store for them?

If you’re single and dating…

Are you confident you’ll WOW your new love interest – crafting a memorable and scintillating experience that will blow their heart open?

Or do you do the same thing over and over again?

Flowers and a box of chocolates?


Dinner at a fancy and expensive restaurant?


There is a secret formula for crafting dates with “OMG WOW” factor.

Dates that inspire passion and ignite desire.

It’s a formula that Jaiya and I used to reignite desire and turn-on in our relationship when we were about to call it quits.

Seriously, this formula rebooted our relationship and awakened that “I can’t keep my hands off of you” energy that we had lost.

It’s a formula that inspires that hot, magnetic attraction – no matter what stage of relationship you’re in.

We call this powerful formula…

Adventure Dating!

There are 3 essential elements to Adventure Dating that assure you will craft mind-blowing experiences for your lover.

These 3 elements are “The Passion Trifecta”

  • Mystery
  • Obstacle
  • Novelty and/or Naughtiness

Here’s an example… Feel how these invitations make your body respond…

“Tonight, at 5:30pm sharp, you will meet me at the corner of Suffolk and Grand. Wear the garment you will find inside this box. First, we shall dine on delicious treats found in the depths of the ocean. As you prepare for this evening, wear a bathing suit under your dress, for we shall indulge in immersive, liquid warmth nourishing our bodies and opening our desires. Let the adventures begin.”

Or this one…

“Inside this envelope you will find a riddle. If you successfully solve the riddle, you will discover the next step in our evening of energetic ecstasy. Good luck.”

You can find all 3 Passion Trifecta elements woven into these invitations.

The reader is getting clues or next steps, but no answers as to what’s in store for them = Mystery.

There are steps they need to take to get the goodies and play the game = Obstacle.

There are garments to wear, riddles to solve, new places for exploration being hinted at = Novelty and Naughtiness.

Adventure Dating is artistry and skill.

You need to know what really turns your lover on, so you know you’re crafting an experience that will show them that you see who they are, you understand them, you honor them, and you know them.

You need to understand your lover’s capacity for uncertainty and how much they need to know – so they feel safe and cared for.

You need to know specifics about their diet, perhaps what clothing they like or need to wear in certain circumstances and their willingness to try new things.

And, if you know their Erotic Blueprint Type™, you can weave arousing elements into your date that will turn them on – creating a total home run!

The Adventure Dating Framework and a whole lot more are shared in detail inside The Erotic Blueprint Breakthough Course.

Full of subtleties and overflowing with fun, The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough is the elegant and uncensored language you need to expand your erotic vocabulary and experience frequent, orgasmic pleasure – whether solo or partnered.

Until then…

Fill your heart with love and your life with pleasure,

Jaiya, Ian and the Pleasure Team