What is all this talk about busting the Gender Binary? Why is it so important and why now? This June we celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Rebellion where transgender women of color among others stood up and demanded basic decency and human rights,...
A Secret Formula for Life Long Passion!
Do you know how to create that undeniable, seemingly unpredictable chemistry pulling you to your lover like a special kind of gravity that overpowers your “rational” mind for a brief but exhilarating moment… Leaving you feeling fully ALIVE and electric. Ah… That new...
Don’t Miss the World Premiere of Good Sex!
I thought the premise was a little silly at first… put cameras in my client’s bedrooms? Why? I had already been a successful sex coach for years. Why all of a sudden would I go from the standard model of talk-based sessions to a new, untested model? But still, I was...
Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style
“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm” ~ Esther Perel - Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
How can we support Ukraine’s voices?
As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...
Masturbation or Self-Pleasure?
The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...
There are 5 Erotic Blueprint Types™

Which One Are You?






