I thought the premise was a little silly at first… put cameras in my client’s bedrooms? Why? I had already been a successful sex coach for years. Why all of a sudden would I go from the standard model of talk-based sessions to a new, untested model? But still, I was...
Foreplay… Done Erotic Blueprint Style
“Foreplay begins at the end of the last orgasm” ~ Esther Perel - Couple’s therapist We LOVE this quote by our colleague and friend, world-renowned therapist, Ester Perel. Building anticipation and desire in relationships is essential to keeping things hot. We see...
How can we support Ukraine’s voices?
As a world-wide, pleasure-based community… We listen to our bodies. We show up raw and real for ourselves and one another. And we honor others by gaining permission first. If we break consent we apologize and make it right. Tragically, our friends in Ukraine hurt in...
Masturbation or Self-Pleasure?
The word “masturbation” can carry a lot of stigma, judgment, shame and fear. The issue is not with the word itself, but with people’s prejudice against it. Let’s just think of the fact that accessing self-pleasure by touching your genitals is something which some...
Secrets to life-long passion revealed
Life-long passion doesn’t happen by accident. The partnership that thrives and is full of turn-on and attraction and that lasts decades without work and cultivation is a myth. Are you living your sex life by default or by design? In this interview with Alexa Martinez...
From Knowing to Living
As we transition from the old year to the new let’s set aside all the “new year, new you” and the “striving to be your best self” and focus in on what is something you know that you want for your sex life in this moment, this week, this month?What is it that you know...
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