Do you know how to meet your lover’s needs?
Fulfilling their deepest desires requires knowing their Blueprint Type™ and mastering the art of Blueprintifying sex techniques to match each technique to their turn-ons.
Many of us are starving to be deeply seen by our partner and to experience this kind of deep, meaningful connection in the bedroom.
I’m sorry to inform you that it’s not another generic sex technique or gymnastic position that’s going to melt their heart and ignite passionate surrender. It’s not the technique (or position), it’s how you use them to meet your lover’s unique erotic personality that wins the day.
You see, your lover has a unique Erotic Blueprint Type™, and once you know how to feed their specific desires, then you can become their ultimate lover.
When you know your lover’s Erotic Blueprint Type you can Blueprintify any technique (or position) to drive your lover wild.
As one hot example, let’s Blueprintify the common sexual position of doggie style.
As you read these descriptions, feel how you respond differently to each approach. How you respond may give you a clue about which Blueprint Type you are.
Doggie style for the ‘Energetic Blueprint Type™’ requires a slow approach.
In truth, you might not actually ever penetrate them and yet they may begin pulsating with orgasmic delight. Approaching them from behind, let them feel you without even touching them.
Then slowly offer some light and teasing touches along the spine, or even blow with hot and cool breath on their back, butt and inner thighs. Tease their genitals in the same way with a cock, fingers, or dildo.
Let them hunger for you and, if you do get to the place where they are ready for penetration, you can rest in stillness at the opening of the anus or vaginal canal before actually entering.
For the ‘Sensual Blueprint Type™’ warm them up with contouring, massaging touch.
Dance your bodies together and hold their body close to yours. As you’re pulling them in close, let your genitals slide and slither as you feel each other’s arousal intensifying.
While penetrating, you can touch and rub in the folds of the labia or around the anus. You can also massage along the spine and around the back, you can pull slowly at their hips or push back into them. Lubricants like warm coconut oil can make this even hotter for the Sensual Type.
This is a very common position for the ‘Sexual Blueprint Type™.’
With someone who has the purely Sexual approach, they usually want to keep it simple and just go for it. Bang, Bang, Bang, and explode, if you know what I mean. There’s not necessarily a lot of artistry you need to add.
However, lubricants and adding touch to other juicy bits can intensify the turn-on.
But you may deepen your pleasure by learning to extend your time making love. Incorporate breath and slowness to allow yourself to indulge in each and every in and out.
For the ‘Kinky Blueprint Type™’ there are many delicious possibilities.
Kinky Types can be turned on by psychological power play or by intense physical sensation. Sometimes they love both.
Safety comes first… emotional and physical, so get training and don’t do anything you have not learned how to do properly.
Add some rope tie to this position. Binding your lover’s arms behind their back or tie their ankles to the bed posts. If you tie your partner’s wrists behind their back, you can hold onto the tie and play with directing them or teasing them by denying penetration.
Perhaps they have to beg or win at a game before you will penetrate them or you’ll allow them to penetrate you.
The ‘Shapeshifter Blueprint Type™’ loves all of these games and techniques. Incorporate them all and extend your play sessions for as long as you can.
Either try many different techniques at once or move through different Blueprint pleasures, especially if you know what their Blueprint Stack is. (This technique is for the advanced lover that we teach in our Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ Program.)
Discover your own and your lover’s unique map of arousal so you can become the ultimate lover and Blueprintify any sex technique to meet the moment.
A great place to start your journey of sexual satisfaction is for you both to take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz and get your 28-page customized Blueprint Report.
Indulge and enjoy,
Ian Ferguson
CEO – The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc.