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Kristin (Wilder) Warnaca

Bend, Oregon - USA


Connecting you to WILDER INTIMACY!

Ah, hurray, you've found me! I'm a 'recovering good girl' who grew up in a very conservative religious home. I love reconnecting people to become free in their pleasure and their purpose, so they can live in true joy and fulfillment. I believe in the power of connection and community, and that true change requires courage, consistency, and compassion. As a ShapeShifter, I fluently ‘speak’ all Erotic Blueprints. My own lived experience of healing after divorce, cPTSD, post-concussive syndrome, and abuse gives me a deep capacity for empathy and understanding.

With 7 coaching certifications and 11,000+ coaching hours, I am able to support your big-picture vision for life, bringing more balance and deeper purpose to all areas of your life, including:

Erotic Blueprints ® | Green Flag Dating™ | Breakup Mojo™ | Devotional Kink™ | Wheel of Consent ® | Somatic Shibari Storytelling™

Rapid Cognitive Rewiring | Intense Experience Integration | Hypnotherapy

Clearing past trauma | Preparing for VBAC or natural birth | Doula Services

OOLA Life Coaching

Client Testimonial: "Kristin is an intuitive guide and bridge to love that leads you back to yourself for inner healing so it is possible to hold more joy. " - Jacob

Who specifically do you like to help/serve?

♥ Christians, ex-vangelicals, and other current or formerly religious people who desire to bring more variety, fulfillment, and excitement to their relationships. I have experience working with LDS / Mormons, Orthodox Jews, Christians, Pagans, Buddhists, and Shamans, with openness to any and all religious backgrounds. (I have a special soft spot for people who have experienced repressive, oppressive religion, purity culture, sexual shame, guilt, or pain, who desire to truly enjoying the sexual pleasure that is their God-given birthright. )
♥ New & experienced KINKY blueprint types who want to explore voluntary power exchange, erotic hypnosis, heart-centered conscious kink, D/s & 24/7 dynamics
♥ Singles who want to become more embodied and confident in their dating, learn to date according to their erotic blueprint and heal their relationship with themselves to be more prepared and equipped for dating and partnership.
♥ Couples who have differences, challenges, and longings, trauma and/or disconnection and want to deepen their sexual pleasure.
♥ People who are currently partnered, but who need solo work with a coach.


Women, Men, & Couples, Dating after 40, Religious Shame, Trauma, PTSD, Body Image, Devotional Kink, Boundaries, Consent.


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