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Sam Orman
Berkeley, CA
Hey, I’m Sam!
I help gay/queer men, women, and couples own their desires, prioritize pleasure, and create the connection and intimacy of their dreams!
After growing up in a strict religious community and suppressing my sexuality for most of my life— discovering the Erotic Blueprints changed everything. I realized that I was primarily Energetic & Sensual and went from feeling numb, disconnected, and broken during sex to feeling love and pleasure for the very first time.
The language of the Blueprints gave me the confidence and permission I needed to start using my voice. Instead of “hoping for the best” during sex, I became skilled at asking for what I wanted and creating spaces where both myself and my partners could feel safe, met, and honored.
Over the last 10+ years of working as a coach, I've created programs and workshops that have helped thousands of people own their desires, heal what holds them back, and create a life of empowered intimacy and connection. I want the same for you!
Who I Love Working With
♥ Gay & Queer men who feel stuck, numb, or disempowered in their sexuality — and are ready to reclaim their voice, desires, and turn-on.
♥ People healing from religious trauma or sexual shame — especially those who grew up believing their bodies, desires, or identities were “wrong.”
♥ Individuals who’ve relied on casual sex for connection but secretly long for something deeper — safety, slowness, and true intimacy that actually feels good.
♥ Singles who are learning to date with honesty and self-trust, and want to build confidence, clarity, and a strong relationship with themselves first.
♥ Couples navigating mismatched desires, communication breakdowns, or feeling stuck in routine — and who are open to exploring new pathways to connection and pleasure.
♥ Sensitive, deep-feeling humans who’ve always sensed there was more to sex than just performance — and who crave intimacy that feels sacred, spiritual, and soul-nourishing.
♥ People who are tired of feeling “not enough” — and are ready to feel free, whole, and alive in their body and relationships.
Client's Words:
"In working with Sam, I learned how to be REAL. I'm no longer just a side character dwelling in my shit... I actually get to show up in life". - John
"My biggest takeaway from working with Sam was realizing the value of connecting with pleasure as a part of my spiritual practice. I can feel the possibility for much deeper presence, reverence, and connection with the sacred which is ultimately what I want most in my life". - Gigi
"The biggest thing I was able to do in our work together was build my communication with my partner. I realized I don't have to be the 'cool girl' anymore. I don't have to pretend like I don't have needs and that I'm okay with everything. I get to be messy, too much, and open to receiving what I actually want during sex!" - Maya
Releasing religious shame · Speaking and living authentically · Resolving emotional conflict within family and marriage · LGBTQ+ identity exploration · Dealing with grief and heartbreak · How to get your needs met as a primarily Energetic or Sensual Blueprint · Conscious Sex & Embodied Dating · Somatic Tools for intimacy · Voice & Boundary work · Bringing God/Spirituality into Sex · Dating and Sex w/ Human Design
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samorman17@gmail.com