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Bettina Essert



Bettina brings decades of teaching, group and private facilitation, circle work, and a lifetime of exploring the places where the physical body, our environment, and mysticism meet. She is an eternal student, always seeking new information and ways of expanding her awareness. If you are looking for a coach who will hold you with both deep compassion and ferocious devotion, reach out.

Who specifically do you like to help/serve?

The Intimacy and Relationship Coach for people navigating the changing landscapes of relationship, body, and emotion. When you are in need of empathetic support in finding pleasure, connection, and joy in relationships of all kinds—including the one with yourself, Bettina is your guide. Bettina's work focuses on the ways living in a Patriarchal culture affects the bodies and relationships of women, primarily, though she loves working with men who are ready to make the shift for their own healing and growth.


Perimenopause, Menopause, Kink positive, Sexless relationships


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