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Paul Paiva

Boulder, CO (usa)


Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., is a former Roman Catholic priest trained in pastoral counseling, spiritual direction, and is an Enneagram Instructor and Wedding Entertainer/Officiant. He is a practicing Christian who is sex-positive, LGBTQ-embracing, Poly-friendly, Kink-friendly, and believes in the autonomy of women’s reproductive rights.

Who specifically do you like to help/serve?

Christian Couples and Singles who may have experienced an oppressive, conservative, Catholic or other religious background who experience sexual shame, guilt, or pain, and are challenged in enjoying the sexual pleasure that is your human birthright.

Singles who want to identify their sexual style to be prepared for their next partner.

Couples who have differences and want to deepen their sexual pleasure.


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