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Bess Leader

Tulsa, Oklahoma


Bess brings a diverse background to the table: former ballerina and stripper, nutrition and food science geek, world traveler/total homebody, and head chef at an off-grid hippie paradise. Aside from empowering her clients through self-pleasure, she enjoys a healthy balance of wild dance parties, romance, playing in nature and naps.

Who specifically do you like to help/serve?

Bess loves polyamory and working with folks who are curious about alternative relationship styles! She also adores perfectionists (as she's one herself) who desire a more playful lifestyle.


Nutrition- specifically healing eating disorders with Intuitive Eating


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