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Amy Seiberlich | EnlightenedEros.com
Olympia | Tacoma | Seattle | Washington State | Worldwide
Amy Seiberlich is a somatic intimacy coach working with individuals and couples who want a more alive, honest, and connected erotic life.
Her way into this work was personal. For years she lived with low desire and growing distance inside her own marriage — and did everything a determined person does. She tried harder, read more, scheduled it, and felt like a bigger failure every time. What finally shifted things wasn't more effort. It was discovering that desire has a language, that hers was Kinky and Energetic, and that she had spent years trying to speak someone else's.
That's the work she does now: helping people find their own erotic language instead of performing a script that was never written for them.
Amy is a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach and Lead Coach Mentee, a Certified Urban Tantra Practitioner, a Rapid Coherence Institute Coach, and she is currently training to be a board-certified health coach. She draws on the Erotic Blueprints framework and other direct transmissions from Jaiya including Erotic Personas and the 9 Dimensions of Intimacy. Into the cauldron also goes Tantric principles, over a decade of experience in health sciences, and the natural gifts of one born for this work — but the method matters less than the premise, which is that you are not broken and never were. Your power wasn't lost. It was loaned out, and you're the one who calls it home.
Amy works with individuals and couples of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures — monogamous, open, consensually non-monogamous, ethically non-monogamous, and polyamorous.
She's especially at home with people who have already tried hard and gotten nowhere: the ones who have read the books, had the conversations, and quietly concluded something must be wrong with them. Usually nothing is. Usually two people are speaking different erotic languages and calling it incompatibility.
Common threads in her work: desire that has gone quiet in a relationship that is otherwise good, mismatched wanting between partners, shame around a blueprint someone has never said out loud, difficulty asking for what you actually want, and the slow disappearance of eroticism under stress, parenting, and ordinary life.
If you're ready to stop performing and start speaking your own language, let's talk.
Somatic intimacy coaching · Erotic Blueprints · desire and polarity · mismatched desire between partners · erotic communication · shame and self-permission · consensual non-monogamy and polyamory · couples work
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