Safety is Sexy!  And Consent is the Key!

Safety is Sexy! And Consent is the Key!

What were you taught about consent? What do you wish you had been taught instead? ******* Content Warning: This post includes stories of Abuse, Assault, Survival and Consent Breaks If you’re not sure what consent in sexual encounters means, and you’re triggered by...
Want Hot Lasting Passion?  Here’s step number one…

Want Hot Lasting Passion? Here’s step number one…

“We just don’t have the time to connect. The kids are out of school, he’s got mountains of work, and I don’t get enough “me” time as it is.” Marley tells me, the frustration clear in her voice. Her husband nods quietly in agreement. “I know the two of you want more...
The Thief of Your Pleasure

The Thief of Your Pleasure

Sex educator Emily Nagoski talks about the “brakes” to accessing desire and pleasure: beliefs, judgments, and feelings that kill your access to enjoyment of your erotic body and mind. In Erotic Blueprints, these are called the “Shadows of your Blueprint” Each...
4 Pleasure Killers

4 Pleasure Killers

  Are you struggling with your satisfaction in the bedroom? Has sex become painful? Has your libido tanked? Is your sexual stamina and staying power not what it used to be? You may be dealing with one of these 4 pleasure killers. Poor Chemistry Your hormones are going...