How Do I Get My Partner To Desire Me?

Dear Jaiya, I love my current partner and he loves me but has no desire for me that I can see. He says it should be enough for me that he says so and that I have the problem because he is perfectly happy with our relationship. It is not that I am some kind of sex...

Overcoming a Sexless Relationship

When I first started my private practice I was shocked to discover how many seemingly happy couples were not having sex. “I love my wife, I don't want to have an affair, but I can't die like this!” One client told me through tears. He'd been...

Should I Loose My Virginity?

Dear Jaiya, I am eighteen years old and have been going out with my boyfriend about a year now. We are both virgins, but he has been asking me lately how far I will go. I have always thought that I wouldn't have sex until I was married, but now I'm not sure....