Are You Comfortable With Dirty Talk?

  She wants me to call her a whore!”  Paul exclaimed.  He stuttered the word “whore” and lowered his voice when he said it.  His face got red and his body tightened as he said the word.  Paul felt these words were degrading to his wife and they...

3 Keys to Creating Unbridled Passion

Black tears are running down her cheeks. He shifts nervously on the red velvet lounge chair. In front of me I have a couple deeply in love, yet not connecting sexually.  The pain of a passionless relationship feels like a slow walk toward a grave instead of the...

Every time I watch this I cry!

Every time I watch this I cry!  It brings me great hope that we can create a world where women feel safe and free to express their sexuality.  See a few days ago I was attending a conference where I got clear on my BIG WHY.  There are many reason why I help people to...

I Feel Bad – It Didn’t End In A Big ‘O’

The carrot dangles on the end of the stick.  The donkey moves forward, mouthwatering, just hoping to get close enough to take a bite.  But the carrot stays forever out of reach.  It dangles there, teasing, getting him to keep trudging along.  He chases it, but it...

How much is ‘Enough Sex’?

“I would be happy if we had sex once a month.” She said, after her husband stated that he would like to be having sex 2-3 times per week. They hadn’t had sex in over 11 years. That was the bigger issue. I frequently get the question about what the “right” amount of...