The Clothes On Arousal Highway

Whether you are beginning stages of dating or married 40 years, having sex with your clothes on can be exhilarating, exciting and enjoyable. I can’t tell you how many women tell me that when it comes to sex they feel like they are just nipples and vaginas.  I...

Are You Comfortable With Dirty Talk?

  She wants me to call her a whore!”  Paul exclaimed.  He stuttered the word “whore” and lowered his voice when he said it.  His face got red and his body tightened as he said the word.  Paul felt these words were degrading to his wife and they...

4 Pleasure Killers

Are you struggling with your satisfaction in the bedroom? Has sex become painful? Has your libido tanked? Is your sexual stamina and staying power not what it used to be? You may be dealing with one of these 4 pleasure killers. Poor Chemistry Your hormones are going...

Dear Jaiya- How Do I Have Multiple Orgasms?

Dear Jaiya, I have a wonderful and romantic husband. We have been together for nine years. This is what frustrates me….I have trouble achieving multiple orgasms with him. I get so sensitive after an orgasm and he is ready to go on 3, 4, 5x and on after! How can...

Sexy Halloween Tricks AND TREATS!

Happy Halloween everyone! Yes, it’s that time of year where we get to dress up all spooky and sexy. Halloween is an opportunity to shed your everyday self and become a superhero, a seductive vampire or a zombie for a few hours. To an alien species visiting Earth for...

Three Principals of Mindful Sex

I recently took a client on an intensive to Harbin Hot Springs, one of my favorite places on the planet. Immediately upon arrival, I found myself soaking in the warmth of the Heart Pool and couldn’t help but overhear a conversation happening next to me about conscious...

7 Tips On How To Be a Good Kisser

Ahhh…..Kissing….one of my favorite “intimate arts”, and oftentimes a skill that gets sorely underestimated and valued! Did you know that, according to therapists, there are an estimated 40 million Americans that are having sex less than ten times a year?...