A Moment of Intimate Gratitude

What do you think about when you think of expressing gratitude for your lover?  Do you think of flowers?  Or sharing verbally how much you appreciate them in your life?  How would you like your lover to express their gratitude for you? How about taking your...

The Clothes On Arousal Highway

Whether you are beginning stages of dating or married 40 years, having sex with your clothes on can be exhilarating, exciting and enjoyable. I can’t tell you how many women tell me that when it comes to sex they feel like they are just nipples and vaginas.  I...

Are You Comfortable With Dirty Talk?

  She wants me to call her a whore!”  Paul exclaimed.  He stuttered the word “whore” and lowered his voice when he said it.  His face got red and his body tightened as he said the word.  Paul felt these words were degrading to his wife and they...

3 Keys to Creating Unbridled Passion

Black tears are running down her cheeks. He shifts nervously on the red velvet lounge chair. In front of me I have a couple deeply in love, yet not connecting sexually.  The pain of a passionless relationship feels like a slow walk toward a grave instead of the...