Vaginal Dryness and Pain After Childbirth

Hi Jaiya. During my pregnancy w/second child & after giving birth, I have daily pain in the labia and vagina accompanied by dryness as well. My doc has tried estrogen cream, steroid cream and Lidocain. Lidocain helps with pain but I'm looking for real...

Period Sex- Sacred Blood and Pleasure

“I'll rub it all over my face!” he said to me, holding up his gloved hands covered in my menstrual blood.  It was the first time in my life that I had let a man go “down there” while I was bleeding.  It was all in the name of sexual...

I’m Afraid of Ejaculating To Quickly

Hey Jaiya. I was hoping you could give me some advice. First I'll give you a quick run down of my situation. Most significantly I have an intimacy issue. I am 28 years old and I have never had sex. I have never had a problem picking up women, but when it comes to...

Is Monogamy Your Only Option?

I was on a CBS radio station with another relationship author. The discussion at hand was “Keeping Intimacy Alive for 2011”.  Things were going along great until the other guest said “Monogamy is the only way!” or something to that effect.  I...